When my boyfriend left me I did not think I would even get better. He left me with a broken heart that I did not think I could ever take a shower without ending up on the floor with tears on my cheeks. When he left me I did not think I can make him regret losing me, I did not think I would be able to walk passing his house on my home without completely losing it. When he left me, I never thought I would be able to hold myself back together because I gave him so many pieces of me. But he left me, and I was completely lost,; however he taught me that no one can make me stand on my feet again except myself. One important lesson I learned when my boyfriend broke up with me is to never lose yourself in attempt to stay with someone who does not care about losing you. I know how difficult it is for a woman to forget a relationship, after she had invested so much of herself to keep it alive. I am sure one day; he will understand I did truly care for him. I promise he is going to miss me being next to him, putting up with him. He is going to regret everything he did to me, including the disappointment he caused. I am sure someday he will turn back, but I will not be there waiting for him any longer. Probably, I have been worthless to him, but he will miss me, when he sees that I have become priceless to another. Then, when he finds himself thinking back of all our memories, I am sure he will ache in regret as the truth lies clear before his eyes, and I am sure he will say:” she loved me like no girl did, and I left her.” It is not difficult to make him regret losing you; it all depends on how you behave after the breakup. Never beg him to take you back, never show a weak personality; always show up with a smile on your face, even though you carry a broken heart inside. It all bowls down to some psychological tricks to make your ex think that the breakup didn’t affect you. He won’t help but want to know what is going on in your life. After a breakup, don’t isolate yourself from the world, and stay locked crying in your room, that’s the worst thing you can do, because you can’t chase away the thoughts about your ex from your head. The best thing you can do is to socialize more, and by socialize I didn’t mean to spend hours on social media, what I mean is to go out and see friends and enjoy your time together. You can even start practicing an activity to keep yourself busy. Time will pass quickly, when you’re engrossed in things you love doing, you will soon find yourself no longer thinking about the sadness of the breakup.
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